I Thought Love Would Be Enough
I became a girlfriend, a wife, and a mother—practically overnight.
One moment, I was a makeup artist living at home, responsible for no one but myself. The next, I was standing in a home I barely recognized, staring at a sink full of dishes, a baby who needed me for everything, and a husband I loved but suddenly felt distant from.
I should have been soaking in the honeymoon bliss, but instead, I felt unsteady. Grateful, yet lost. Fulfilled, yet disconnected.
I thought love would carry me through.
But love alone doesn’t teach you how to share your space, your emotions, or how to hold onto yourself while building a life with someone else.
And if I’m being honest—I wasn’t great at relationships.
Not because I didn’t want to be. But because I didn’t know how to be.
I thought love would carry me through.
But love alone doesn’t teach you how to share space, emotions, or hold onto yourself while building a life with someone else.
I Grew Up in A Traditional Filipino Home.
Where love meant discipline.
Where emotions were kept quiet.
Where silence carried more weight than words.
I was raised to be strong, self-sacrificing, and respectful—but vulnerability? Emotional connection? Those weren’t things we talked about.
So I learned to protect myself. I built walls. I rejected before I could be rejected.
And when marriage and motherhood pulled me into deeper waters, I didn’t realize I had been treading water my entire life.
I kept searching for answers—books, therapy, women’s groups—believing that if I just found the right advice, I’d finally feel like myself again.
And through it all, my faith in God was my foundation.
I trusted Him. I prayed. But still, something felt…off.
Because even with faith, I still struggled to feel wholeI kept waiting for God to change my circumstances.
But one day, I realized: He was waiting for me to change.
HE WAS WAITING FOR ME TO CHANGE.
Most people come to coaching looking for strategies, but what they truly need is transformation. That’s where I come in. I help you untangle the deeply ingrained thought patterns that keep you stuck, whether it’s in relationships, confidence, or navigating family expectations while pursuing your own dreams.
What makes me different? I don’t just offer surface-level mindset shifts—I guide you through profound, lasting change. With a deep understanding of how culture, personal growth, and relationships intersect, I help you challenge outdated ways of thinking while staying true to what matters most to you. Together, we unlock new possibilities so you can create the life and relationships you truly desire.
When I Stopped Struggling,Everything Shifted
For so long, I thought I had to fight for love. Fight for understanding. Fight to feel seen.
But the harder I kicked, the more exhausted I became.
And then one day, I let go.
And instead of sinking, I floated.
I stopped trying to fix my marriage and started focusing on the relationship I had with myself.
I stopped waiting for my parents to express love in ways they never learned how to, and started seeing the quiet ways they had been loving me all along.
I stopped blaming others for how I felt and took responsibility for my own peace.
And the most unexpected part?
As I softened, so did they.
As I changed, so did the way they responded to me.
As I learned to love more openly, more deeply, more fully—my entire world transformed.
Getting You Back in Relationship—with Yourself
Most self-help focuses on fixing the past or providing quick solutions—offering strategies, tips, or even couples therapy as the only way forward. But real transformation isn’t about tactics; it’s about how you see yourself and your relationships.
I help individuals break free from deep-rooted patterns, cultural conditioning, and limiting beliefs that keep them stuck. Because no amount of relationship advice will work if you don’t feel aligned with yourself first.
When you transform from within, everything around you follows.
How I Help
I offer 1:1 coaching to help you build confidence, trust yourself, and transform your relationships from the inside out.
You can work with me in two ways:
✔ Individual Coaching – For those looking to build confidence, break free from unhealthy patterns, and create fulfilling relationships—starting with themselves.
✔ Couples Coaching – Unlike traditional couples therapy, I don’t coach you together in sessions. Instead, I work with each person separately, helping both individuals work through personal blocks that affect the relationship. When both people grow, the relationship transforms.
You can choose from short-term packages for immediate breakthroughs or longer packages for deeper transformation.
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Because Relationships Are the Heartbeat of Life
They shape how we love, how we grow, how we experience every joy and every struggle.
They aren’t just about marriage, or family, or the people we see every day.
They’re about the friend we hesitate to reach out to because we don’t know if they’ll understand us.
The coworker who makes us second-guess our own voice in the room.
The moments of loneliness in a crowded space, wondering why connection feels so far away.
Because relationships are more than conversations and shared space.
They are the unspoken energy between two people—the feeling of being truly seen or painfully overlooked.
They are where we find our greatest pain, but also where we discover our deepest joy.
And life without relationships? It isn’t life at all.
Everything we do, everything we experience—it is meant to be shared.
Without relationships, life is just a series of tasks.
With them, life becomes alive.
Now, I Help Others Stop Struggling And Learn to Float
Not because I have a perfect marriage or perfect relationships.
But because I know what it’s like to feel lost inside them.
To feel duty-bound to your family while struggling to find your own voice.
To wonder if you’re the only one who doesn’t feel a deep sense of belonging.
To show up at work, in friendships, in social spaces—unsure how to bridge the gap between where you are and the connection you crave.
And I also know the power of stepping into a different story.
One where love feels easy.
Where connection feels natural.
Where being yourself doesn’t feel like a risk, but the only way to truly live.
Because relationships aren’t something we fix.
They’re something we grow into.
And when you stop fighting against yourself, everything around you rises with you.
